Monday, August 25, 2014

Be "Them"

*A quick note prior to this blog - we attended the summer Las Vegas Teachers Pay Teachers conference in July. The amount of generosity, gratitude and inspirational speakers and staff members of TPT was overwhelming, to say the least. We are proud to be a part of this community and hope to meet so many more people than we met in Vegas this last summer. Thank you to the TPT staff and community for your hard work and dedication to making teaching a better profession, in all aspects.*



Okay, whatever do you start with on a first blog. Okay…how about this…

Why do you teach? Honestly…that’s a question I want you to answer right now in your own mind. Why do you teach? Certainly it isn’t the money, (although the benefits are fantastic). It probably isn’t the 60 to 80 hours you put in on a weekly basis, (summers ARE compensation time, that’s the way to look at it) and my hunch is that it isn’t the exposure to 8,319 different types of colds, flus, germs and yuckies that does it for you. Lesson plans, weekend classroom clean-ups, pages and pages of grading, administrative meetings, seminars and training and leadership meetings that run way too long…seriously friend, why do you teach? WHY do YOU teach?

I don’t mean to start this writing on a downer. And maybe you DO enjoy those things, who’s to say!? I suppose I’m convinced that there’s a weird sickness that exists in all of us teachers, where we actually enjoy sitting and grading page after page, writing little notes to a kid and a parent on a math paper who might (probably won’t) not look at what you had to say in an attempt to change that student’s life with a one-line inspirational ditty like “You can do better than this Timmy, let me know if you need help!” or “I know you have it in you Erica, do your best on every assignment. Come see me to fix this!” or “Blah blah blee-blah-bloo-blah…”” Even the creation of lesson plans can be exciting, knowing that this could be the one lesson where we go to sleep at night convinced that we are the best teacher on planet Earth and no one else knows how awesome you are except your kids. (Then, you find out ½ of them don’t remember anything from yesterday and it’s back down to earth.). 
Yeah, you know what I’m talking about.

So then why do you do it? Chances are you have some amazing cliché that you have in mind. Changing kids’ lives, inspiring future generations to achieve higher levels of success, motivating the youth to be engaged…or, maybe you just love kids. Whatever your cause, whatever your reason for teaching, you must know this – YOU ARE important, (speaking of cliché), but really, you ARE important, and you have to know this. Because you do have 20 to 30 kiddos whose reality is that you are their teacher for the next 9 months, and many of them will see you more than their own family, which is why they’ll probably drop a “Mom” or “Dad” on you at some point (and don’t be offended if you are a male teacher and they call you “Mom” on accident, or if you feel like you’re 29 still and they call you grandma…it happens!)

Whatever reason you teach, whatever reason you are in this profession, we have all experienced that calling to be a leader in kids’ lives. Role model is implicit, there is no denying that role when you are a teacher. 

So embracing that role looks a lot different for a lot of people.

The role of teacher could mean many things. 

And what’s one thing that, typically, most teachers want more than anything for their students?
To love learning, to love school, to love being there. 

And we have an immense responsibility, dare I say obligation, to attempt to foster that love. And when you get caught up in the all the aforementioned “downer” stuff, it can be hard to show kids what you are attempting to show. They know. They get it. They usually see right through a teacher who doesn’t want to be there, or at the very least, they know the difference between a teacher who is full of joy and a teacher who is just putting in their time.

Controversies surround teaching. Locally and nationally, there’s always some debate or some thing going on that could make any sane person look at the profession of teaching and say “That’s not for me.” But we keep going, we deal with the politics that inevitably infiltrate our daily work and we try to put our best foot forward, although, admittedly, that best foot is not always the best step. And we have to do our best to leave all of that stuff at the door in the morning, because, we have 20 to 30 kiddos who look up to us, who need us, who crave our attention and who, again with the cliché, know in their being that WE ARE IMPORTANT.

Every generation thinks the current goings-on are the worst we’ve ever seen. So, I suppose I’ll say it here – we face difficult situations every day, and the stuff we deal with currently is perhaps some of the most difficult things we’ve ever had to face – not only as a teacher in the teaching profession, but as a society. The culture has changed, and kids are more a part of that change now than ever thanks to social media and the outlet known as the world wide web. Really, it probably isn’t even worth listing any ways to “combat” it or “overcome” it or “fight” it or whatever it. It is what it is. So what do we do?

We unite. We’ve got to put aside those controversies, those aggravations, those every-day annoyances that find their way into our lives. Because the kids need us. They need us now more than ever. They need you to be better than yesterday, and to be better tomorrow. And that is where colleagues become more important than ever. 

You know that person that everyone says, “Wow, I want to be like them.”

Be "them". 

Be that person. 

Be the teacher who goes out of your way to check on your teammate. Be that teacher that says hi to each grade level, to the support staff, to the kitchen staff, to the janitors, to the parent volunteers and cross-walk guards. Be that person who everyone says "I want to be like them." Everyone likes that person, and if we all attempted to be that person, think of how much happier you could be (and maybe you are already super happy…but add some more happiness to that and just imagine how awesome you would be...)

And be that person to your kids. Don’t just be the teacher. Be “them”. The one kids look back on and know you cared. Be the one that kids go home and are excited to wake up in the morning to be in your class, to be near you, to be around you. Be the person they can count on, that they can depend on, that they can look forward to seeing because they know you will be a listener, a mentor, a guider, a leader. Because YOU ARE important to them.

And let them know THEY are important to you.
 
Happy teaching this year friends. More soon.

Josh Lee